Reader Question:

What should I reply to the guy who simply desires have sexual intercourse about basic date…in situation I like him plus don’t desire to hurry?

-Rose (Thailand)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:

Dear Rose,

You really need to tell him clearly you happen to be keen on him but you don’t want to have intercourse with him as you’d somewhat develop a substantial friendship initially.

Make sure he understands those that have sex within a month of meeting have about a 90 per cent probability of separating within annually and you also should not participate that statistic.

You shouldn’t state, “I’m not prepared however.” To some guy, which can imply you’ll be prepared in 10 minutes. And do not make use of a token “no,” that will be, saying no, while nonetheless hugging and kissing. Guys interpret that sort of “no” as exciting females looking for femaleseplay.

Alternatively, actually go from him and inquire you need to take residence. You don’t have to be aggravated. You can be polite, solid and state everything with a grin in your face.

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